Posts Tagged ‘fiction’

Further Reading – A Widow’s Story by Joyce Carol Oates

Thursday, February 24th, 2011

Joyce Carol Oates, known for her thought-provoking fiction, has written a new memoir, released on February 15, about the sudden death of her husband of forty-six years and the aftermath. Painstakingly describing the grieving process, Oates writes about what it is like to have lost the most important part of her life.

The point of this group of memoirs and novels is not necessarily to give you a collection of books about death and grieving, but rather a collection that describe what it is like to be a wife, and, yes, sometimes a widow. Each of these books looks at the woman as wife, as connected to her husband, but individual and beautiful.

It’s going to be difficult to read A Widow’s Story without immediately thinking of Joan Didion’s powerful The Year of Magical Thinking. This book is a memoir about the sudden death of Didion’s husband, John, and her daughter Quintana’s illness, but it is also a well-researched piece of non-fiction about grief and the concept of magical thinking.

Also non-fiction, The Meaning of Wife is a look at what it is to be a wife in the 21st century. With a range of topics like the wedding industry, wives-turned-murderers, abusive relationships and sex and marriage, The Meaning of Wife is a fascinating must-read for any woman.

The Paris Wife is a soon-to-be-published fictionalized account of the marriage of Earnest Hemingway and his first wife, Hadley Richardson. Author Paula McClain deftly creates a voice for Hadley based on the letters that she sent to Hemingway and her other writings. Hadley gives us a different perspective on the controversial and conflicted figure that Hemingway has become.

Finally, Meg Wolitzer’s The Wife is the story of one woman whose famous husband is about to win the prestigious, fictional, Helsinki Prize. As they fly to Europe to  accept the prize, his wife decides that she must end their marriage and the novel is her first-person account of their life together and its inevitable unraveling.

Recommended Reading: “The Frozen Rabbi” by Steve Stern

Thursday, July 29th, 2010

For some reason, three of the most interesting books I’ve read this season have been about the 20th-century Jewish experience. Each of these treats the central tragedy of the Holocaust in an utterly different way. Julie Orringer’s “The Invisible Bridge” is a lush historical novel that follows a young Hungarian architect through Europe before, during, and after World War II; the book doesn’t skirt any horrors, but it is all about continuity of narrative. “Day for Night,” by Frederick Reiken (which I reviewed last week) takes a wholly different approach, circling a central mystery about a character who may or may not have survived a mass killing through the perspectives of over a dozen other characters.

In “The Frozen Rabbi,” accomplished novelist Steve Stern attacks the quandary of how the Jewish past affects the Jewish present, and while his book is on the surface the least connected to the Holocaust of these three, in its heart it is as conscious of that event as any Eli Wiesel book. The rest of the book deserves attention, but allow me to spend a few moments explaining why Stern’s approach is different and why I believe these books are appearing now.

Stern traces the history of a family we first come to know as the Karps of Memphis. It’s the late 1990s, and young scion Bernie has just discovered something in the basement Kelvinator. Bernie’s find and what happens next take up about half of the novel. Its other half is about how an Old World family survives the traumas inflicted on European Jewry over the last century.

Yet pogroms and kibbutzniks get more time than the Holocaust, which is relegated to the experience of Shprintze, Israeli immigrant and Ruben “Ruby” Karp’s short-lived first wife whose first-born son dies with her. Obviously, there is a lot of symbolism resting on Shprintze’s frail shoulders, and even more on her forearm’s “blue-inked tattoo.” By laying her to rest, is Stern saying that America’s Jews have forgotten something? Or repressed something? Or something else entirely?

It isn’t easy to tell from Stern’s treatment, but if the reader pays attention, she’ll see that this author is less interested in explaining how something so horrible happened than in tying it in to the larger story of where some American Jews come from and where they are today. That’s what I found in these three contemporary novels by Orringer, Reiken, and Stern: They are discovering new ways to write about an unspeakable thing with which they have little direct experience. As the years roll on and fewer and fewer of us have any links to survivors or liberators of the death camps, we have a choice about whether to remember or forget.

“The Frozen Rabbi” urges us to remember not just the tragic parts of Jewish history in the West (pogroms, stereotyping) but also the productive ones, like entrepreneurial spirit and resilience. A large part of that resilience, it would seem from Stern’s vigorously funny novel, is humor. From the moment young Bernie Karp finds 19th-century Rabbi Eliezer ben Zephyr’s icy sarcophagus in his family’s deep freeze (Bernie is — what else? — searching for a piece of liver with which to abuse himself, inspired by a certain novelist), the book’s action mixes magical realism with historical storytelling with huge, broad, Marx-Bros.-style laffs. At one point, the unfrozen, newly hip Rabbi tells Bernie that the answers he seeks “It’s all in the book…which it’s twenty-four ninety-five retail.” 

HA! What self-respecting American Jew would pay retail? But I digress…this is a book which it simply defies description. Stern is by turns solemn, gleeful, wry, sorrowful, and manic, yet it all works. I rarely wanted to put “The Frozen Rabbi” down. Even when one Karp ancestor turns to a life of mob crime and seems utterly unsympathetic, the author has a trick up his sleeve to redeem the moment. However, through all of the hijinks, the author also has a much more meaningful purpose: He shows that Judaism isn’t a mere matter of appearances. The Rabbi himself discards his shtreimel and phylacteries for Hefner-esque lounge garb, but remains a man of words. Characters may be Russian peasants clad in homespun or modern teenagers wearing tee-shirts, but they’re still Jewish. 

Somehow, Stern seems to be saying, it doesn’t matter how much we forget. What matters most is what we remember.